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Here is an exceptionally powerful way to surge your self confidence, quickly and effectively:

Get yourself a mentor.

A mentor is someone who knows about self confidence. He or she IS confident, and radiates self confidence.

This mentor can guide, help, inspire and motiavte you to become highly self confident. He or she will be on the journey with you, will take you as far as you can go and then you move on to another mentor who can take you even further and further.

There’s no need to stay with one mentor. Be a sponge and soak up as much as you can from one mentor (sponge) then move on to the next. However, if you find that one mentor is all you want or feel you need, even better, stick with him or her. Good for you!

The confidence that you will have from having a mentor is phenomenal.

Find a mentor you can trust, have heard of, are comfortable with. A mentor could be a highly confident friend, a spouse, a teacher, a cousin, a brother. Anyone. He or she does not necessarily have to be a life coach (although it’s probably more advantageous). Think of all those around you. Can anyone be your mentor for self confidence? If not, search the Internet, look for people who write about self confidence and contact them. Ask if they are willing to guide you, personally, on your issues. What’s the worst that can happen?

Go ahead. Think about this deeply and find yourself a mentor. Think how much quicker you can become confident with the right direction or advice.

ENJOY! And remember, all meaningful change in life begins from within.

Hani Al-Qasem

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Many successful people realise the power of role modeling, and many have used it to their benefit.

So why don’t we use it? Is it because it’s hard work, or because we’re lazy, or because we don’t understand its power?

Let me tell you, the power of role modeling is huge! It could save you months if not years of hard effort to get you where you want to be. Literally!

Why spend your time reinventing the wheel of success. If you want to be innovative, you may do so, but do so when you have achieved success, or are further than you are now.

Here’s the process:

Find a person who you believe is confident in the area that you want to be confident in. Study that person; read his or her books, watch videos and interviews, listen to audios, if you can meet the person.

Then focus on one component of self confidence that he or she has that you want. For example, the way she talks or the way he stands tall. Now, as often as you can, act as if you are that person; talk with the same confidence as she does, or stand tall as he does.

Soon enough, you will become a confident communicator or have a self confident poise.

When you are happy that you are comfortable with this component, move on to the next.

The idea here is to model as many behaviors, attitudes and beliefs that you can from as many confident role models as you want.
This does work. Use it and see the benefits. Me: My role models are Dr Joe Vitale, Richard Branson, Jack Canfield, T Harv Eker and more.

ENJOY! And remember, all meaningful change in life begins from within.

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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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After you wake up and stretch, hop out of bed and sing, “I just wanna celebrate.” Take that with you to the shower, in your car, at work and the way back home.

ENJOY! And remember, all meaningful change in life begins from within.

Hani Al-Qasem

Learn how to have the Self-Confidence to lead a more fulfilling life. Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

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When I attended Tony Robbins’ Unleash the Power Within weekend seminar (and yes, I did the firewalk!), he told us the story of how Sylvester Stallone wrote and starred in the movie Rocky.

Listen to the story - it’s less than 10 minutes long. You will love it.

ENJOY! And remember, all meaningful change in life begins from within.

Hani Al-Qasem

Learn how to have the Self-Confidence to lead a more fulfilling life. Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

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Low self confidence can stand in your way just when you need it most; where you cannot be at your best, where you start to stumble or stutter, where you start looking down at your shoes, where you fidget or turn away and walk back into your limited comfort zone.

Well, I have great news for you!

Feeling and becoming confident quickly, almost instantaneously, is possible, and you can do it. With repetition and continued practise within a short period of time you will have all the confidence that you ever wanted; you can have supreme, unlimited self confidence.

Here are two powerful ways to get you started. They will help you gain self confidence and make you feel better about yourself quickly:

1. Do something you are good at

When you do something that you are competent and proficient at, you will quickly feel the surge of self confidence that comes with the feeling behind your skill and talent.

What are you great at? Painting, writing, cooking, jogging, holding parties and conferences, perhaps gardening. What is your strongest talent or skill? Once you have indentified what you feel awesome at, think deep how that strength makes you feel. Allow that self confidence to flow through your entire body.

Keep focused on those feelings. And when you feel that you are ready think about the situation or event you do not feel comfortable about and transfer the confident feelings into that situation.

Feel yourself being more competent, courageous and confident as you tackle that situation. At your peak of confidence say three times, ‘Yes, that’s me!’ and notice how much more confident you have become.

Do that technique daily or as often as you can so as to strengthen it.

2. Remember all the things you have accomplished

This technique is an extension of the one above. Get yourself a note pad and jot down as many accomplishments that you can remember; particularly write the ones that you thought were going to be hard, but ended up being rather easy, or easier than you had anticipated.

Here are a few examples: any exams that you passed despite thinking that you wouldn’t; or an important meeting that you chaired with greater ease and confidence than you expected; hosted a party for your child that you never thought you could pull off. Think of as many scenarios as you can remember.

The idea here is to use these successful memories as points of reference. You thought you would never achieve them and yet you did. What does that tell you? It tells you that you have more self confidence that you think you have.

Combine the two strategies together and you have the ingredients to be a confident winner. Reinforce them with repetition and in due course nothing can stop you doing whatever you want or desire.

Hani Al-Qasem

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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs