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A quick from the heart message.

I would like to share with you something that I have known for a while yet kept it to myself for some reason.

Last night, I literally rolled off of my bed and fell onto the floor knocking my bed side light which in turn knocked my CD collection of my favourite inspiration songs.

It was not until I was having breakfast that I realised that this sequence of events was not a coincidence. My rolling off the bed was not the result of a nightmare or a full stomach.

There was a message behind it.

And the message was for me to inform others about the power of music; how music can influence our lives in many ways, one of which how music can make us better people, how music can make us achieve much more in life.

Aside from the many things we loved and respected about Michael Jackson, his music was a shining beacon to us, – to say the very least. The words and lyrics said and reflected a lot about the world we live in.

Many of us sang his songs, danced to his songs, cried and laughed to his songs.

Michael Jackson’s songs sent out many messages; some of which are messages of love and messages to save the human race. Messages for us to save ourselves.

Why am I saying all this?

I suppose you could say ‘the coin dropped’ when Michael Jackson passed on to the other life. His music and legacy will stay with us forever. His music will continue to influence and affect us.

So will the music I am about to tell you about.

We all know, I’m sure, that music can really move us emotionally, in one way or another; into a happy and cheerful mood, or into a tearful and sombre mood.

Did you know that music can also affect your success?

Did you know music can motivate and inspire you to achieve many of your personal and professional aspirations, goals and dreams?

The right kind of music has the power to change your life for the better!

Seriously!

You know this, because you feel the affect of Michael Jackson’s music. So if you have music with powerful motivation and inner power words, you will feel inspired to follow-up on and achieve your goals in life.

I would like to share with you Success Songs . It is there where you will find incredible inspiring and motivating songs that can take you to the next level of achievement and success.

Check them out!

And remember to download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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Would you like to create your destiny, your future?

Sure you would.

You have the ability and power to create the kind of magical life that you want.

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Thank you.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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We know that the mind is a goal-setting organism; it loves goals and loves to achieve them no matter what. So, knowing that and knowing what it is you want in life, how do you set about programming these goals into your goal-achieving unconscious mind?

One extremely powerful and effective way of programming your mind is through affirmations – positive statements said over and over in a specific way.

The statements, in time, will programme your mind through imagination. As you hear or say the affirmations you will imagine that statement as in the present – done and achieved.

When you imagine the affirmations while in a relaxed state it will be very hard for your unconscious mind to do anything else but make those affirmations a reality.

Unsure what affirmations you can use?

If you go to the website below and scroll down, you will see e free, no opt-in download of Insight4you.com True Thoughts 2008/9 e-book. It contains a lot of affirmations you can use for many occasions.

Here’s the link:

http://www.insight4you.com/main.html

Make use of the affirmations. Pick the ones you like and use them daily, every day until what you want has happened. Look into a mirror and shout them if you can; if you can’t say them out loud in your mind and imagine them as if they have already materialised.

Keep me posted.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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Now that we have established that you want to be more confident, it is important that, as well as taking the appropriate action to make it happen, you have to expect that you will have the self confidence that you seek.

Your brain, or more concisely, your unconscious mind is a goal-seeking organism. It loves goals, and it loves working towards them. When you set the goal of becoming self confident in a particular area of your life, it works day and night to make that happen.

They key here though is that you must set your unconscious mind to work on what you do want, as opposed to what you don’t.

In other words, making it your goal to “not make a mess of your presentation” instructs your unconscious mind to make a mess of the presentation. Your unconscious mind does not understand negatives.

If say, you do a Google search on “not make a mess of my presentation” you will get over 14 million ways of making a good presentation, power point presentation, how to make a presentation, good presentation design. Even Google doesn’t understand negativity! And your unconscious mind is like a computer – we’ve heard that many times.

So phrase what you want in the positive: “I will make a fantastic presentation” or “I am going to make the best presentation yet.” Come up with a sentence that means something to you, that makes you smile and go for it.

Expect it and you will get it. There is no room for doubt. Believe and expect.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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A great friend of mine forwarded me the message below. It brought tears and happiness to me, instantly.

I would like to share it with you. I do not know where it originated from, so I hope the author wouldn’t mind me spreading his word:

One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, ‘Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.’
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said, ‘Those guys are jerks. They really should get a life.’

‘He looked at me and said, ‘Hey thanks!’ There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again

I stopped him and said, ‘Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!’

He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn’t me having to get up there and speak on Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous! Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, ‘Hey, big guy, you’ll be great!’

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. ‘Thanks,’ he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began. ‘Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach, but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story.’

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn’t have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. ‘Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable.’
I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and
Dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize its depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.

With one small gesture you can change a person’s life. For better or for worse.

God puts us all in each other’s lives to impact one another in some way.

Look for good in others!

ENJOY! And remember, all meaningful change in life begins from within.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and eliminate the limiting beliefs that keep you from enjoying happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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