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Many people claim: “Oh, that’s just the way I am. There’s nothing I can do about that!”

Is there something they can do?

They say there’s nothing they can do to change because they believe it to be so. They believe that’s who they are and they believe they cannot change.

Well, the thing is, they can change – if they want to.

It’s important for you to realise and accept that beliefs are not facts; they are merely interpretations you have concluded based on your own life experience. If, for example, you lived in a home where money was lacking, your beliefs, based on your life experience at that time, will be there’s not enough money to go around. That’s what you concluded.

The fact is, there is plenty of money to go around.

You may know that consciously, but deep down, unconsciously, your beliefs are in conflict with what you consciously think. And since your unconscious mind is more powerful than your day-to-day thinking, your conscious thinking, your beliefs will hold you back from having the amount of money that you desire.

More often than not, your core beliefs are not your friends. They ‘work hard’ to keep you where you are. To have the money that you are seeking you would need to change or eliminate your core, limiting beliefs.

How can you do that?

Let’s say you want to have self-enhancing beliefs around the amount of money you want. Your first step is to find out what’s holding you back; identify the limiting, negative beliefs around money. Get yourself a journal and write down as many as you can.

For example, I am not good enough to have all the money I want, I will never be a success, I will never make £5,000 a month, and so on.

Now, ask yourself what beliefs you would like to hold. State them in a positive, optimistic way and write them down: I am good enough and deserving to have all the money I want, I am enjoying my success, I am becoming more and more prosperous, and so on.

The final step is to ask yourself, What can I do to have all the money I want? What can I do to fully enjoy my success? What can I do to become more prosperous and make £5,000 a month?

As you do that, your unconscious mind will attract and bring about ways to make your desires a reality. Your unconscious mind loves the ‘question and answer’ game. You ask the questions and it will bring about the answers.

And when it does, you MUST take the necessary action. As you ask the questions and take action, the limiting, negative beliefs that you once held will weaken and change or get eliminated.

So, after all, there is something people can do about the way they are. Right?

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Are you are having a hard time getting motivated to take action to do the things that you want, to take the necessary steps to get you where you want to be?

Do you find yourself wrestling with your negative thoughts and beliefs that only seem to bring in to your life more challenges?

Now, let me ask you, Would you like to change all that?

I am sure you said yes, so here’s how.

First step: You have to be aware of the words that you use. When you spot yourself saying something negative or limiting, STOP immediately. Say CANCEL, CANCEL.

That’s the first step. Simple.

Second step: Imagine or visualise a barrier around your body or mind, or perhaps an image of the thought bouncing against your head and flying off somewhere into space. The idea is to deflect the thought.

Third step: Think or say a positive thought that opposes the one you just deflected. This thought is a positive statement or an affirmation, but done precisely. Not your typical ineffective affirmation.

Effective affirmations are purposely chosen words and phrases that replace old, limiting thoughts and beliefs with new empowering ones. It is important to word your affirmations in an effective manner so they can bring about the changes that you are seeking.

For example: If you repeat this affirmation: “I am successful”, do you think it would be effective enough to make any real change? Hardly. You know that this statement is not true, and no matter how hard you work on that affirmation it will be rejected by your unconscious mind because it conflicts directly with the beliefs that you already have.

So how do you go around this?

Fourth step: The answer is very simple. You word your affirmations or statements in a way that will be more readily accepted by your unconscious mind; where there will be much less resistance.

So going back to the example above, it will be far more effective and believable to reword the affirmation to something like: “I have a passionate desire to succeed. Success is my one and only option.” I am sure you can tell this one sounds more accepting.

And the great news is that your mind can actually see the possibility of it happening, so your unconscious mind will not offer any resistance.

The question I sense you asking is how long will it take for changes to take place. I hate to say that there really is no set time. It really depends on how intense your opposing belief is.

If you have an intense negative belief around success, as in this example, it will take longer for the change to take place. The best suggestion I can offer is keep reciting effective affirmations over and over until you feel the change is taking place.

If you start saying the affirmations then stop along the way or have lost your enthusiasm and motivation to carry on, I suggest you click on the link below:

http://www.insight4you.com/motivation.html

There you will see effective motivating affirmations that are believable and will not face an impenetrable wall of opposing unconscious beliefs. The affirmations will make you a master of self-motivation, allowing you to move further ahead in life.

A sample of the affirmations:

I learn all that I can from setbacks and move on
I persist until I reach my objectives
I see opportunities all around me, and I am optimistic about my success
I am enthusiastic about everything that I do, and I give it my best effort
Each and every day is filled with accomplishments
I am fuelled by the desire to be the best that I can be
I take daily actions to achieve my goals in life
My creative mind is the foundation to my success
I enjoy taking daily steps to turn my dreams into reality
It is natural for me to set and achieve my goals
I recognise and use my strengths and skills to reach all my goals

Get motivated and stay motivated to achieve more. And while you’re at it, why not make it your destiny to accomplish many great things in your life?

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Take Advantage Of This While You Can. Download The Book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps For Only $7.99 Today And Be A Confident You.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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