Aug 24

When searching for a job many people first peruse the job title then the salary. If they see the salary is high, they believe that that particular position is out of their reach and so they move on to the next job vacancy.

Why is that?

It’s because they don’t believe they are good enough or worthy or deserve such a position. They have the common belief, “If they’re going to pay that much money, they must expect a lot, and I don’t believe I can do what they expect,” and so they don’t bother applying.

Has this ever happened to you?

Who’s to say you’re not good enough? The interviewer? No. You decided you weren’t good enough. You decide you don’t have the necessary qualifications.

Maybe you’re qualified, but you don’t seem to believe so. Maybe you can do that job, but your beliefs are holding you back. There are people out there who do land jobs that they are not qualified for; it’s their self confidence and belief that they can do the job that gets them hired.

I know a person who was capable of doing a particular job, but he did not apply for it because he believed he could not do it. His limiting, self sabotaging beliefs held him back. He felt he was unworthy of such a high-paying job. That’s all he saw – high paying job, and that’s what scared him off.

It is imperative that you become aware of how your beliefs can hold you back from achieving what you want in life, from applying for a high-paying job that you want, going for the promotion, asking for a raise, and more.

Detect your limiting beliefs, challenge them and raise your monetary level.

See how you react when you notice a job that you want that pays higher than the figure you are comfortable with. If you sense a feeling of ‘undeservingness’, challenge it; talk yourself out of it.

“Sure I can do that job. I’ve done this sort of thing before, many times and for years. So what if they’re paying a lot of money. Heck, that’s for me. I’m worth that amount…” or something on those lines; whatever makes you comfortable and happy to say.

Have the confidence and courage to reject those false limiting beliefs that stand in your way, and improve on your life.

Remember, you attract into your life what you think and believe. Have the empowering and optimistic thoughts and beliefs to attract more situations that are in line with your desires.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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Aug 19

When you believe in yourself, have self confidence and take daily action, you will have the key ingredients to possessing a success mindset. This success mindset strengthens your tenacity, your commitment and determination to achieve your aspirations in life.

If you don’t possess the success mindset, when you are faced with a challenge or a problem, even a small one, you will shy away from it, set it aside for a later day, or totally give on what you were pursuing.

By believing in yourself and having a success mindset, you will overcome any challenges, setbacks and progress on from any failures – I believe failures are successes in disguise – so along as you make it a genuine point to learn from your failures.

In order to succeed in any area in your life, you must have that belief that you are a success. Any blocks, or limiting beliefs, the “Oh yeah sure…” need to be dealt with; weakened and eliminated, then, in their place, you programme enhancing, empowering beliefs, those that are in line with your desires , aspirations or objectives.

How can you do that?

One method is to get yourself a journal, divide one page of that journal into two columns. In one column jot down what your associations with, say money are. For example, money is hard to get, money is not important to me, money is only for the rich, and so on.

In the other column, write down the opposite of each of your limiting beliefs. Using the beliefs above, money comes to me easily and effortlessly, money is important to me, there is plenty of money for everyone including me, and so on.

Set the empowering beliefs as affirmations that you can say out loud (where possible, and in front of a mirror). Select 2 or 3 affirmations at a time and repeat them as often as you can upon awakening (while shaving, brushing your teeth, in the shower, driving to work) and just before bedtime and as you lay in bed; let the final thoughts as you drift off to sleep be your affirmations.

In due course, you will have weeded out the limiting beliefs and will have instilled your empowering ones, and will have started your journey to having a success mindset.

Keep it up!

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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Aug 5

Does it matter what you believe? Or put in another way, does it matter what your beliefs are in your financial area, or your relationships? Or what your health beliefs are?

The answer is a definite, unequivocal yes!

Your beliefs control the way you live your life; they shape your life, your financial life, your relationships, and your health. In fact, the way you are living your life now is directed and shaped by the beliefs that you are holding.

The thing to realise here is that most of your beliefs are sabotaging you from greatness; they are mostly not based on facts or reality. They are not based on truth.

They are beliefs that you gained as you progressed through life. You sucked in beliefs like a sponge, especially when you were a child; from your parents, friends, teachers, books, movies, and so on. And those beliefs are now the way you see, understand and interpret the world, your world.

You make your daily decisions based upon those beliefs; those beliefs that were not yours in the first place.

Some of these beliefs may be helpful, while others may be unfavourable and damaging. One of the most common beliefs is, “I am not good enough.” Many people have been told that statement when they were young; by their parents, teachers or teased by their friends.

This belief, that you heard many times when you were young, has the power and potential of keeping you stuck where you are. Whatever you attempt to do, you will probably fail, simply because you have this belief that you are not good enough.

As if that were true. That belief is utter rubbish. It isn’t true.

If you couldn’t draw a horse when you were a child and you were told you’re not good enough, what has that got to do with you running your own business at the age of 25?

In theory, nothing. But you held on to that belief that you are not good enough, and it has unconsciously held you back from having that successful business.

That’s what I mean by limiting beliefs are lies. Certainly a very high percentage of them are, and yet they govern our lives, as in the example I have just mentioned.

The limiting belief of “I am not good enough” must be eliminated from your unconscious mind and must be replaced with a self enhancing belief, so you may move forward and become the successful business owner that is within your right to be.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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Aug 4

I always search and research to learn more, to grow and to share.

Below is a YouTube video that I would like to share with you. I have been using this method for a while now and I find it effective. So much so, that I taught it to my children.

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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