Jul 2

Do you recognise those annoying, nagging voices in your head that say, “No. You can’t do that” or “You’ll never finish off this project” or “Are you nuts? You’ll never get that promotion” or “You suck at interviews”?

Would you like to know how you could quickly be rid of these thoughts, not allow them to run your moment or life and have fun doing so, and dramatically boost your self confidence?

Well, here’s one great and fun way to tackle those annoyances AND boost your self confidence:

Have fun. Really. Acknowledge those nagging thoughts and have fun with them. Blow them sky-high, out of proportion. For example, if you’re off for an interview and you’re feeling nervous and anxious, exaggerate that nervousness in a FUN and happy way.

Imagine yourself sitting in front of the interviewee and see him as Mickey Mouse or Snow White. See yourself having fun together, chatting about all the movies Mickey or Snow White were in. Imagine you are both having a great laugh, remembering parts of certain movies, laughing wholeheartedly.

Hear yourself saying the right things, hear the interviewee smiling and laughing, nodding his or her head in agreement with you.

A step further?

If you are a fan of Mickey, imagine the interviewee IS Mickey, and really go overboard. Have great wild fun. Laugh more, reminisce more.

Finally, hug Mickey and thank him for giving you the time to have fun with him, and you look forward to working with him.

Will that work? It does. I did myself (honestly).

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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Jul 1

“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” Peter T. Mcintyre

So what if you’re wrong? You learn from your mistakes and move on. Mistakes or failures will not kill you. Being wrong will not kill you. It’s not the end of the world. Use mistakes, failures and being wrong as life’s learning lessons.

As best as you can, do not dwell on them. Write down what you have learned and move forward. This way you are sure not to repeat the same mistake again.

Ask yourself, What can I learn from this mistake, this failure (I hate this word) or from being wrong? How can I change direction and move one step forward.

This is the way you will learn more and gain more experiences in life – although it’s better to learn from other people’s mistakes.

Remember, as corny as this may sound, success could literally be just round the corner; it could be the next step or action, perhaps the next phone call.

Make mistakes. Learn. Be confident. Carry on.
Have failures. Learn. Stay confident. Keep going.
Be wrong. Learn. Increase confidence. Keep at it.

Mistakes, failures and being wrong are very important steps to success. Use them in the right way!

Here’s to success!

Download the FREE book Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs and start eliminating your limiting beliefs that keep you from wealth, happiness and success.

Download the FREE sample of the book Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and start benefitting today.

Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.


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