Confidence Blog

Now that we have established that you want to be more confident, it is important that, as well as taking the appropriate action to make it happen, you have to expect that you will have the self confidence that you seek.

Your brain, or more concisely, your unconscious mind is a goal-seeking organism. It loves goals, and it loves working towards them. When you set the goal of becoming self confident in a particular area of your life, it works day and night to make that happen.

They key here though is that you must set your unconscious mind to work on what you do want, as opposed to what you don’t.

In other words, making it your goal to “not make a mess of your presentation” instructs your unconscious mind to make a mess of the presentation. Your unconscious mind does not understand negatives.

If say, you do a Google search on “not make a mess of my presentation” you will get over 14 million ways of making a good presentation, power point presentation, how to make a presentation, good presentation design. Even Google doesn’t understand negativity! And your unconscious mind is like a computer – we’ve heard that many times.

So phrase what you want in the positive: “I will make a fantastic presentation” or “I am going to make the best presentation yet.” Come up with a sentence that means something to you, that makes you smile and go for it.

Expect it and you will get it. There is no room for doubt. Believe and expect.

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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.

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