Now that’s a very interesting question, don’t you think? Many people say, Oh, I lack self confidence, and when questioned where they seem to stumble by saying, Oh, well, you know, in life.
That is not specific enough. In much the same way you cannot go to the ticket booth at a train station and ask for a ticket to anywhere, or switch on your car sat navigator and expect to end up somewhere, you need a destination.
Where, specifically, do you need more self confidence? In your relationship with your spouse, co-worker, boss, in making a presentation, making a speech at a charity. Where?
To get what you want in life you must know what specifically it is that you want, and that includes self confidence.
So, in which area do you want more self confidence (relationships), which specific area (my tough-nut boss), what exactly do you want self confidence for (stand up for my rights).
Make a note of these and work on getting more self confidence. How? Spend a few minutes in the morning before hopping out of bed imagining yourself standing up to your boss and getting it your way (whatever it is that you want).
Do that for a while and notice the great difference in you.
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Hani Al-Qasem is a published author and personal growth specialist. He co-authored Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps and Establish Powerful Self-Enhancing Beliefs.
