Confidence Blog

Many people live a habitual life: always taking the same route to work or to the shops, getting dressed in the same order or going to the same resort for their holidays year after year.

What about the other habits, those that make up who some people are: always a cigarette with a cup of coffee, too shy to attend social events, not courageous enough to ask a person on a date.

A mother, who worked as an executive in the financial district of London, said: “I want to be confident enough to make something more out of my life. Yet I have a habit of running away from opportunities that I know would really benefit me. Can I change this habit?”

We create our habits because we are creatures of habit. And we can change our habits to better our life.

Following a number of sessions with an executive coach, the mother began to see a number of small opportunities; these were her own, they were her ideas that she was happy to incorporate, and as time went by, she used these to build her confidence.

The small opportunities became small successes and she built on the confidence gained from these to start exploring and taking on board larger and more challenging ones. In this way, she naturally integrated new habits into her way of life.

Get into the routine of changing your old habits by making one small change every day, large or small. The possibility for change is always there, every moment of every day.

Create and practise habits that support how you want to be, and notice how new doors of opportunities begin to open.

If there is a habit that is not allowing you to make an improvement in your life, what would that habit be?

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

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Success, in all its shapes and forms, and in any way that you describe it to be, is not achieved by accident. It takes commitment, motivation and persistence.

And more importantly, the journey begins the moment you make the decision to be successful, and then by making the right choices that are congruent with that decision.

An executive in a thriving cosmetic company had often thought of resigning as she felt she didn’t have the qualifications to progress any further, and, as a single, working mother, she couldn’t find the time to improve on her credentials.

By the end of the second session, this lady had made a decision that would advance her career. By deciding to reach higher, she made the decision to invest in herself, to learn more so she can offer more.

To do that, she chose to commit at least one hour every night to study, rather than watch television, once the children were asleep.

If you were to make one decision today that would have a positive impact on your life, what would that be?

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Do you want to learn how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life? Be sure to read the FREE ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

When you daily, confidently and consistently think about your future goals and ambitions, both professional and personal, you may see results before too long.

Direct your focus and keep committed to achieving your future aspirations; ‘see’ your future as you want it to be.

By establishing what it is that you want in your life, from today you can make the decisions that will place you firmly on the road to realise the future that you want. And once the decisions have been made follow them with confident action.

It is your actions in the present that have the potential to draw you closer to your goals in life. And it is the decisions that you make on a daily basis that are the springboard to how successful you may be in the future.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Do you want to learn how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the FREE ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

To live a life of luxury or to have a successful business seems to be many people’s dream. Although some people invest in their time to chase after their dreams and aspirations, others wait in vain in the hope that someday the dream will find its way to them.

What many of those who anxiously stand by the sidelines, watching successes and opportunities pass them by, do not realise is that they themselves already possess within them a great resource, a gift or talent, that when expanded on, has the potential to take them down the path to fulfilling their dreams.

If you are now to search deep within to find your gift or talent, or something that you enjoy, that you can expand on, what would it be?

Hani Al-Qasem

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Hani Al-Qasem is a self-improvement expert. He co-authored the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.” Go to the website above now and download your FREE copy of the e-book and start today to change your life for the better.