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What you focus on expands!

In other words, if you focus on the good things in your life, you will get more of the same. On the other hand, if you focus on the negative things in your life, you will get more negativity. That’s how life works!

Are you focusing on the good things; such as your good health, the food you eat, the roof over your head, and the job that pays the bills?

Or are you focusing on the not-so-good things in your life? Those things that you wish you could change.

By focusing on the 10% that represents the things you don’t like about your life, you will attract more of that. More negativity. More dullness. More unhappiness and more failure.

When you focus on the 90%, you will get more of the good things that you are about with.

Like attracts like. That is the Law of Attraction put in its simplest form. Like attracts like.

So why would anyone want to live in that 10% – on the life that they don’t like or want? By living there they focus on the problems and failures rather than on their visions or goals.

I am not saying you should ignore the 10% that contains the things that you want to change. See those things as they are, and also see them better than they are. See them so you can make the necessary changes. By identifying what you don’t want, you will find it very easy to ascertain what it is that you do want.

And when you pinpoint what you do want, set them as goals and go for them. And as you do, focus more of your attention on your optimistic future, on the things that you are doing right, on your small and big successes along the way.

Focus your attention on the lovely 90% and let that expand. There you’d have a more positive and optimistic attitude and you would lead a happier life.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

For more information on how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the free ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

There are many people around the world who are living the life of their dreams. In fact there are millions.

I have achieved quite a few dreams of my own and I am working on some more.

Anyone and everyone has the potential to live the life of their dreams. It is possible, and it has been proven time and time again.

The dreams do not have to be huge, like those achieved by Bill Gates and others.
They can be marrying the person of your dreams, having the dream job, going on a dream vacation, living a healthier life, starting a small home business.

One of my dreams was to write a book. I accomplished that dream. I co-authored a book on self-confidence with Natalie Dee.

Every day new people achieve or live their dreams. Why not you?

Make a commitment, a decision that you want to improve on your life. Then make a plan on how you are to achieve that dream. The plan does not have to be so detailed, it can be small steps that can be built on as the days, weeks or months go by.

Once you have made that plan, implement it. Take action. A plan is just a plan, something quite insignificant until it is followed by action. The key to turning any dreams, your dreams into reality, is by taking action, preferably every day.

Join the people who are living their dreams. Why not? Decide that you want to improve, develop a plan and act on it.

Millions all over the world are living their dreams. Why not you?

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

For more information on how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the free ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

For you to accomplish more in life, to reach the level you want to be at, or to realise your dreams, whether big or small, it is important for you to take productive action.

Wouldn’t it be great to take productive and valuable action every day? Wouldn’t it be great to ensure that every action that you do take is constructive and beneficial in attaining your goal?

Well, why don’t you find out what other successful people did to achieve the same results that you desire? This way you can save a lot of time discovering what works and what does not work.

Achieve your goal quicker and with less stress this way.

By learning and adopting what other successful people did you too can achieve similar success and perhaps more!

Think of one person who has achieved the success you desire and read about how that person achieved that success. I encourage my clients who are stuck in this state to read as much as they can about that person; to read biographies, articles and interviews – to find out what they did to achieve success in their field.

Why re-invent the wheel? Find out what successful people did, copy what they did and always look for ways to further improve on your goal. Live the concept of: Constant and never-ending improvement!

Is there a particular successful person that you would like to find out how he or she accomplished a particular goal? It does not have to be a celebrity. It can be your father or mother, a friend, a friend’s friend, a brother or sister, a teacher.

Sit with that person and ask as many questions as you can to ascertain their methods of success, and take relevant action.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

For more information on how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the free ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

What do you think success is? How would you describe victory? What is triumph?
All of the above – success, victory and triumph – are achievable!

You are successful every step of the way. Your success could be manifested in the present moment, or it could be a success that has gone a little astray, yet it is success.

“What do you mean by that,” asked a client.

Some people may call it ‘failure’. I prefer to call it success gone astray. Why? Because this so-called ‘failure’ will undoubtedly bring you one step closer towards actual success.

This supposed ‘failure’ brings with it a great opportunity for feedback. You can learn why that approach did not work, and, in doing, so you have been successful at discovering a way that did not work.

Take on board the winner attitude by viewing every action that doesn’t go your way as a learning lesson, as a successful step forward. Learn all you can and move on to the next successful step.

Be happy that you are closer to accomplishing what it is that you are after.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

For more information on how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the free ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.

Think for a moment; what do you suppose is one of the qualities that separates champions from wannabe champions?
What do you think a champion does when he or she loses their focus – gets interrupted, distracted or even experiences a setback? And what does the wannabe do in a similar situation?
The wannabe champion considers interruptions and distractions as great opportunities to quit and move on to do something else, perhaps something a little more fun and enjoyable. And he or she will look at setbacks as reasons not to pursue the objective.
The champion, however, dusts herself off and rejoins the game; recommits herself to actively chase her purpose undaunted. She will learn the relevant lessons and continue to strive to win.
Have you lost your focus? If you have, recommit and get back on track at your earliest opportunity.
Recommit and refocus!

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

For more information on how to have self-confidence to lead a more fulfilling life, be sure to read the free ebook Self-Confidence Building In 7 Steps and achieve all that you want.