Confidence Blog

You see things and you say, “Why?” But I dream things that never were, and I say, “Why not?” – George Bernard Shaw.

I have this quote framed in my office and I recite it every morning, without fail.

Whenever I don’t feel as confident as I want to feel in a given situation, or I feel scared and nervous, I repeat this quotation a few times and then I challenge the event that had stalled me.

Why not? What have I got to lose but learn from the experience that could’ve held me back? That took away my self-confidence.

I recite, Why not then I stand tall, portray an appearance of confidence and confront the challenge.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Raise your confidence in any area of your life by applying the learnings in his e-book. Download the free 48-page sample of “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” and start benefiting.

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As many of you are aware, taking a 10 minute break during the day is highly beneficial. This is where you go to a quiet place, you sit down, get comfortable and close your eyes. Empty your mind of the day’s events and relax. Chill.

Today, I’d like you to take this relaxation process one step further. Rather than spending 10 minutes sitting quietly, how about you spend only 5 minutes void of any thoughts, and the remaining 5 minutes to visualise what it is that you want.

It could be making that perfect presentation, being confident at a social event, making sure your child’s birthday party goes really well. Whatever.

Visualise what you want in as much detail as you can. See and feel the event with your inner eyes. Sense, accept and nurture the confident emotions that arise.

When you’re done, open your eyes, stand tall and say, “That’s me! I am confident.”

And walk out of that room, feeling sharp and confident.
Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Raise your confidence in any area of your life by applying the learnings in his e-book. Download the free 48-page sample of “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” and start benefiting.

Take your personal and professional life to a higher level through his True Thoughts mind reprogramming MP3 downloads. Simply press play, relax and change.

Today, I would like you to take time out from your busy schedule and consider this: We all feel confident whenever we participate in or do something we are familiar with; when we have done or handled a particular thing in the past.

Think about how this relates to you.

We, however, feel less self-confident when we are in situations that are new to us, that we face for the first time, where we lack knowledge or skill.

At that point, we question our abilities to perform. We see fear and doubt, we feel hesitant, simply because we are not confident in ourselves.

Self-confidence often leads to success. In order to attain that all-important confidence you need to work on and increase your knowledge and abilities in any area that you have not faced before that you will benefit from.

In my book, I talk more about how you will become much more effective and more self-confident when you take the time to learn and practise that element that will lead you to your success.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Raise your confidence in any area of your life by applying the learnings in his e-book. Download the free 48-page sample of “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” and start benefiting.

Take your personal and professional life to a higher level through his True Thoughts mind reprogramming MP3 downloads. Just press play, relax and change.

Should anybody have the opportunity to see my wallet, they will see I have in there a photo of me with my hands up in the air looking happy and confident.

Why do I have that photo?

It serves to lift my confidence in times of need.

Whenever I feel my self-confidence is lacking, I deliberately and immediately discard that disempowering feeling and switch to an empowering and confident mood by taking out my wallet.

I see the photo and almost immediately I smile and switch to feeling capable and confident.

It’s effective. Try it.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Raise your confidence in any area of your life by applying the learnings in his e-book. Download the free sample of “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” right now and start benefiting

Take your life to a higher level through his
True Thoughts mind reprogramming MP3 downloads. Just press play, relax and change.

The other day I found myself discussing the concept of goals with my nine year old son. I was very proud that he was interested in such an important topic, no thanks to me!

I took the time to explain to him what goals are and how they can change people’s lives. And then I went deeper. I spoke about self-confidence and how it has an incredible power that can make anyone achieve their goals.

I remember saying, “Any goal worth having is a goal worth going after! And self-confidence starts the ball rolling.”

More than likely there will be some challenges, hurdles or setbacks. Yet, self-confidence triumphs over all of these delays.

As adults, self-confidence is a great quality to have in virtually every area of your life; to increase your income, improve on your relationships, to get a promotion, to be at ease in social settings, in sport.

And hear this, the fantastic news is that confidence can be learned!

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”

Download our free sample e-book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” Right Now.

You can also take your personal and professional life to a higher level through the
True Thoughts affirmation MP3 downloads.