Capture that winning feeling of confidence and success as many times as you can as you go about your day. Those feelings can be due to small or short-term successes. There is no rule that says for anything to be a success it has to be something big or long-term.
Success is success! That’s how your mind sees it. Period. Make it your role daily to feed success after success to your sponge of a mind. And as surely as a seed grows into a plant, you will grow more confident after each seed that you plant.
Take advantage of all short-term victories. Make the most of short-term successes particularly when you are feeling pessimistic or insecure about your future. Remind yourself and profit from past successes to lift you and to regain that confident feeling from deep within.
I am pretty sure you have daily short-term successes that you can be proud of. Think back on them and stimulate and recreate that winning feeling again. Use that surge to fuel you to the next success, confidently and with power.
Perhaps you could spend a few days to write down as many successes as you can, and write down how confident you felt having achieved those successes. Focus on how you communicated with confidence, on how you psyched yourself up to increase on your confidence prior to and during the event.
Write as much as you can on how fantastic and strong and confident you felt for having achieved such an accomplishment. As you write you recapture that winning feeling, the pride, the confidence and the satisfaction.
A winning feeling is a confident feeling, one that reinforces success.
Hani Al-Qasem
Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps.”
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