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Aug 30

Are you feeling insecure or pessimistic about what your future may hold for you?

Do you feel unconfident in your ability to achieve what it is that you desire?

I then ask you to take full advantage and make the most of the Power of Focus. This can stimulate and create an optimistic and winning feeling that can stay with you all day long.

Really? Sure it can! Try it!

Confidently focus on the end result of something specific that you have been actively seeking. See and feel the outcome. Imagine that you are now living that goal, that desire.

How does that make you feel? Alive? Happy? Confident? Successful? Optimistic? Does it give you a great boost to strive harder to make that goal truly manifest in your life?

Optimistically and confidently focus to arouse and excite the juices of your tenacity to fire you up to achieve your future.

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps”.

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Aug 23

Get this, for you to be successful in your pursuit of happiness and for you to achieve your goals and live the life of your dreams, you cannot afford the comfort of being shy and introverted.

To have anything that you want and to become the person that you want you have to rise above your shyness and gradually increase the level of your self-confidence.

You can overcome shyness step by step. Attend small social events and introduce yourself to any person you feel you might be comfortable with.

Ask a question and let him or her do all the talking. Then ask another question and nod as that person responds.

As you gradually become more comfortable you can participate in the conversation. And before you know it, you will graduate to talking to more people within your circle.

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps”

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Aug 16

Did you know that the pace that you walk can say a lot about you? That it can exhibit what mood you are in and how confident you are?

Sure you did. Right?

The way you walk depicts how you feel about yourself in any given moment.

Now, did you know that by walking a little faster you can improve on your self-confidence?

By walking slightly faster you will portray a self-image of importance. You give the impression that you are significant and confident.

From today, walk that little bit faster and communicate to the world that you are confident.

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps”

Download our free eBook “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” Right Now.

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Aug 13

I asked an edgy client a direct question, “Do you think you set goals that are beyond your capability to achieve them?”

“We are supposed to set high goals, aren’t we?” she replied.

“In your opinion, do you believe you can achieve the goals you set for this quarter?” I repeated.

“I don’t believe so. They are rather high, I must say,” was her quiet response.

I don’t believe… Such powerful, disempowering words.

For you to set goals, whether large or small, you have to believe that these goals are achievable and that you believe in yourself that you can take all the necessary action to achieve them.

A lot of people are held back from any chance of development in their personal or professional life by not believing in themselves. By repeatedly saying I don’t believe they remain where they are.

On the other hand, if they believe in themselves, in their strengths and commitment, and in the goal, they can take small steps every day in the direction of attaining the goals. With each successful step that they take, they gain more confidence in themselves through added belief that attaining the goal is in fact not only possible but very close to actually manifesting.

Set small goals and believe that you can achieve them. Remember, small achievements lead to bigger achievements.

What small goal do you believe you can achieve this year?

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps”

Download our free eBook “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” Right Now.

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Aug 1

So what’s in a handshake? How much importance do you place on a handshake? A lot, very little, none?

A handshake is part of our body language, and I am quite sure many of you are aware of how our body can uncover what we feel. Whether we feel confident or not,

I find a handshake gives you the opportunity to widen the window of your self-confidence. That simple handshake will put you into an increased confident state.

Once you extend your hand and firmly place it in the palm of the other person, you will have made a definitive connection, one that will take your self-confidence to a higher level.

Your steady grasp serves as a depiction of your self-confidence.

Make use of it. Extend your hand and feel yourself go up one more step up the ladder to added confidence.

Hani Al-Qasem

Hani Al-Qasem and Natalie Dee are the co-authors of the book “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps”

Make today the first day of the new confident you. Download the free sample of the book, and discover how you can move through life with confident ease.

Download our free eBook “Self-Confidence Building in 7 Steps” Right Now.

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